Sir Billy

Hello, my name is Sir Billy. I am a 37 year old male Dominant from Tuscaloosa, Alabama and I fell in love with BDSM a long time ago. I’ve always known that the things I liked and the ideas I had were a little…skewed, so to speak. I’ve never been one to follow the norm and, to be honest, I tend to rebel against societal norms. I grew up as a little punk rocker; always rebelling against my parents’ authority. I chose to follow my own path, rather than the structured hierarchy that was laid out in front of me from an early age.

I fell in with a rough crowd in high school. I have always connected better with the social outlaws, the people who don’t follow the rules and flirt with the lines of the law. So, I was a little bad boy and, in spite of that, I excelled in school. Not straight A’s by any means but, if I wanted A’s, I would have gotten them. I was the type of student that didn’t pay too much attention and was always goofing off. Definitely riddled with ADHD that would go undiagnosed until my mid-thirties. I didn’t do homework and skipped a lot, but still managed to do well on tests. Needless to say I graduated easily and went on to the next stages of my life. I wasn’t ready for college just yet.

From here I went to work on a rice farm in Mississippi. I drove combines and tractors and spray rigs and worked the rice patties. Uneventful for the most part, minus a couple run-ins with Johnny Law and a mean brown recluse that ate a hole in my arm.
For the next 5 years I would go through hell. Welcome, the Marine Corps. I joined the Marine Corps for 3 reasons:

1. I knew I wanted to go to college, but I didn’t want to have to pay for it.
2. I wanted to blow shit up and, if I’m going to blow shit up, I want to be the best of the best at blowing shit up.
3. I had no real direction with my life and I had nothing better to do on that particular Tuesday.

This is a time in my life I do not talk about with many people. It was not a fun time for me and I would not wish it on my worst enemy. That being said, it did teach me discipline, respect, dignity, and honor. For that I will always be thankful to the Corps. Semper Fidelis. Oorah Devils.

Bring in, The University of Alabama. Aside from joining the Marine Corps, going to college at The University of Alabama was one of the best decisions I ever made. I had a blast. I was (mostly) celibate throughout my Marine Corps enlistment so, as you can imagine, when I got to college I was a kid in a candy store. I went batshit crazy and was flirting with every woman I saw. This is where I was introduced to formal BDSM and where I took my first submissive. I was learning and researching the things I knew I already liked and I found so much more. I graduated from Alabama with the same haphazard nonchalance that I exhibited throughout high school and still managed to pass with B’s. After graduation I started a long distance relationship with my soon to be ex-fiance because I was offered a job with the United States Geological Survey in Illinois. I worked here for a year and a half and at the end of it I…

A. Quit my job to move back home and get married
B. Towed my jeep home and it bounced off the back of a tow dolly and ran into an 18 wheeler, making me without vehicle
C. Found out my fiancé was cheating on me with a co-worker, which ended our wedding (which was the following week)

I found stable living quarters and developed a drinking problem. I drank and pissed my money away from factory work for about 6 months before checking myself into a 9 month inpatient rehab facility in Bessemer, Alabama. Hello, The Foundry. Nine months of Jesus and sobriety is enough to make anyone want to drink. Alas, I managed to graduate that too, with flying colors.

Bring in my professional career. Being at the Foundry when I was at the Foundry was what I needed. I managed to secure a job onsite at the Mercedes-Benz factory with an engineering contracting company. This was my foot in the door to where I am now. Since then, I’ve been an engineer with Mercedes, various automotive suppliers, and I currently reside in Academia.
For the past five years I have been very heavy in the BDSM scene. Researching. Learning new techniques. Honing my skills. I found Fetlife from a past partner around 2023. I was not aware that there were as many kinks out there as there were. So what did I do? I learned. I hyper-focused. I sought out all the things I was interested in and began talking to people that were interested in the same things as me.

Welcome in, Twitter. I found twitter when I was making content with an ex-girlfriend. She suggested we use the platform to advertise our OnlyFans, so I did. Here I found all my Findom friends and, someone I value very deeply. My mentor. Madam Rabbit.

Madam Rabbit has been teaching me the professional structure of BDSM and sculpting me into a well-rounded Dominant. Since I met her, I have grown more than I ever thought possible. Things that used to affect me don’t matter as much anymore. I’ve learned to control my emotions and master my anger because life is fleeting. Anger is an emotion none of us have time to dwell on. It is not an emotion a Dominant can afford to feel for long. Feel it. Let it fade. Move past it.

This is merely an excerpt from a memoir that is yet to be written. If you stayed until the end, thank you. I hope you found my life interesting. Feel free to reach out on any of my pages, I dont bite. Much.